Hypothetical question (for those of you who have two Frenchies!)

Nicole G · Jul 8, 2016

Is it a lot different to have two than one? Also, does your relationship change with the original one?

When I adopted Ellie I was looking for a companion. That worked out for me - I take her everywhere and we do everything together! I know she's bonded to me and I don't want that to change. But I see so many pairs of Frenchies and they seem so happy that I can't help but consider getting her a friend. I don't know if it would ruin the bond to have another one in there.

On the other hand, she loves other Frenchies and there aren't many others around here. I'm just wondering if you lose that special bond you have with one when you have two.

davidh · Jul 8, 2016

I always say, two are better than one. It gives her a play mate, and dogs are pack animals anyway. The thing to do is make sure to show both of them the same attention. They may fight occationally, but that's just dogs. They really should get along great, especially since Ellie likes other Frenchies. When you get your new Frenchie, let them meet on neutral ground, or in the back yard. Let them get used to each other first, then bring them into the house. If they get along fine outside, they should do fine in the house. Just watch when they play so they do not get too excited, because that's when a fight might break out. You will soon learn the signs. We have 7, 5 Frenchies and 2 English. Everyone gets along fine except JLO and BeBe, they just don't like each other. It's not really a problem, as BeBe is old and likes staying in the back by herself most of the time. So I would say, go for it, you will be glad you did.

Jakeyjake · Jul 8, 2016

I agree with [MENTION=4]davidh[/MENTION]. Getting a second wouldn't ruin your bond with Ellie, but I totally understand your concern. If she likes other frenchies, she will most likely be happy to have a sibling. You will love watching them play together. Good luck!

Nicole G · Jul 9, 2016

That's what I figured. I'm definitely considering it.

But my other question is - would she be jealous? Even if they got equal amounts of attention, she's still my baby and she's always been my only dog. I wouldn't want to bring a puppy into the house and have her terribly upset. I don't want it to be something that would change her as she is the sweetest dog I've ever met.

Today, however, she saw two other Frenchies and thank God the window was closed because I thought she was going to jump out of it! She gets so excited.

But it's definitely a lot to think about. I don't know how she'd react if they were in her house. Plus, the weird thing is - she only likes other females. She's "eh" with males - she's not aggressive but all the male dogs she's known since she was a baby haven't been overly kind to her. She's gentle and very relaxed around girls.

My main concern is her and what makes her the happiest. I don't want to do something that we'd end up regretting.

Squishy Walnuts · Jul 11, 2016

Wally is my only Frenchie but Uma my Boston was my first dog and our bond has not changed. It's as strong as ever. She loves to play with Wally as well as just me, and now she's got a friend to hang out with when I'm at work. Definitely get another!

davidh · Jul 11, 2016

She shouldn't change, she will always be your baby.

winginit66 · Jul 18, 2016

They will have a blast with each other!!! Wilson (the brindle pied) is extremely jealous if I make over another in front of him. Olivia doesn't like our Cairn terrier. All of them will occasionally squabble about something, but it is usually over in seconds.

Gidget was our first and she is still MY baby!