hey everyone , i am new here , and a fairly new mommy of a frenchie , frankie is 9 months old ( female ) ..but i am at my wits end , so im hoping someone has experienced the same or can please give some advice , ..2 problems really !!..one is she has recently started peeing on my bed !!! always husbands side !! ..and secondly ..everytime i leave the house she growls and barks at anyone that comes near me , ..or passes me in the street, i have tryed to be firm with her , but that just seems to make her worse , i have tryed distraction ,i am quite isolated where i live and trying to find a class , or puppy school is almost impossible ,