Charlie11
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Hello everyone, I am new to this site and also new to frenchies. I have had other dogs in the past but never a frenchie.
My puppy, Tonka, is 17 weeks old and he has been with us for 1 week. I have a wife and 2 children still at home (son 8 daughter 15).
I bought Tonka to be my little buddy. I am self employed and wanted him to go to the office with me everyday and cuddle and play with me when we got home. I feed him, I take him outside to go potty, I give him treats, he's with me 24/7.
Since the first day we brought him home, he simply wants almost nothing to do with me. He loves everyone else. He gets so excited when ANYONE but me is around. He jumps up on their legs, begs for attention, will play fetch, tug of war, lick faces, do a happy dance, etc.
I literally beg this dog for attention. I get in the floor, talk in a high pitch voice, a low pitch voice, I offer toys, treats, and scratches, basically make a fool out of myself, all to no avail. He won't even PLAY with me! He treats me with almost total indifference.
I originally thought it was because I was a man, like maybe my voice or size scared him, nope. He loves my brother who is much much larger than me. Then I thought maybe it was my beard, maybe it scared him somehow, nope. I shaved it and he still doesn't like me.
I know this sounds silly and insecure but I can't help it. I wanted to be his favorite person. I wanted him to follow me from room to room just to be by my side. I have to drag him away from my secretary, if the wife or the kids or a total stranger are around, he's 100% done with me. When he and I are alone, he will occasionally sit for me to pet him for a couple minutes then walks away.
I literally don't know what to do. I love him regardless of course and always will but I stupidly allow this to hurt my feelings lol. I know it's only been a week, but why is he so friendly and playful with everyone but me.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could make my dog fall in love with me lol?
My puppy, Tonka, is 17 weeks old and he has been with us for 1 week. I have a wife and 2 children still at home (son 8 daughter 15).
I bought Tonka to be my little buddy. I am self employed and wanted him to go to the office with me everyday and cuddle and play with me when we got home. I feed him, I take him outside to go potty, I give him treats, he's with me 24/7.
Since the first day we brought him home, he simply wants almost nothing to do with me. He loves everyone else. He gets so excited when ANYONE but me is around. He jumps up on their legs, begs for attention, will play fetch, tug of war, lick faces, do a happy dance, etc.
I literally beg this dog for attention. I get in the floor, talk in a high pitch voice, a low pitch voice, I offer toys, treats, and scratches, basically make a fool out of myself, all to no avail. He won't even PLAY with me! He treats me with almost total indifference.
I originally thought it was because I was a man, like maybe my voice or size scared him, nope. He loves my brother who is much much larger than me. Then I thought maybe it was my beard, maybe it scared him somehow, nope. I shaved it and he still doesn't like me.
I know this sounds silly and insecure but I can't help it. I wanted to be his favorite person. I wanted him to follow me from room to room just to be by my side. I have to drag him away from my secretary, if the wife or the kids or a total stranger are around, he's 100% done with me. When he and I are alone, he will occasionally sit for me to pet him for a couple minutes then walks away.
I literally don't know what to do. I love him regardless of course and always will but I stupidly allow this to hurt my feelings lol. I know it's only been a week, but why is he so friendly and playful with everyone but me.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could make my dog fall in love with me lol?