Oh my goodness, I just caught up on this entire thread. I am so glad he is doing well, however, I'd be a wreck, too, having to have him convalesce for so long and trying to keep him quiet. They are just a terrible worry. Time passes and hopefully soon this will all be behind you. I'd be a wreck having him sleep with me, too. I'd freak over every twist and turn or noise he made. Good luck; it sounds like he is healing quickly.
I'd like to have Bambi's nares done because I think it would help her, but I just can't do it. I can't stand the thought of her being in pain or uncomfortable and not understand what happened.